match

Since you were a kid, you’ve presumably known what a match was. Its decades in the industry have provided it with ever-evolving information for singles looking for that special someone. But don’t anticipate a corny questionnaire or outdated graphics to reflect the fact that it was created in the 1990s.

Match has completely redesigned its questionnaire to be more of a conversational inquiry into how you’d react in genuine situations — both with a partner and, say, a neighbor who needs aid at 3 a.m. Match ensures that you are matched with someone whose ideal lifestyle fits yours by probing into your daily behaviors and ideals (with the possibility to identify features that are deal breakers). The combination of whimsy and logic reduces the burden of signing up for a paid dating site.

Hinge

If you have a Tinder profile, you presumably have one on Hinge and Bumble as well. Although the major three millennial-focused, quick-fire apps may appear to be interchangeable, Hinge offers a set of unique profile requirements and a data-driven algorithm that distinguishes it from competitors that simply send everyone within a 10-mile radius your way.

OkCupid

Is it your biggest nightmare to go on a date with someone extremely attractive just to discover that they are uninterested in women’s issues? OkCupid recognizes that the world’s hottest, coolest individual isn’t all that hot or cool if they’re tone deaf about the present social justice context.

By answering deal-breaker questions like “Would you date someone who has a gun in the house?” or “Should the government mandate children to get vaccinated for avoidable diseases?” users can shed light on subjects they care about and weed out people they don’t want to argue with. OkCupid is notable for allowing all users to choose their pronouns, making it one of the most inclusive dating sites on the market. The site will allow you to add a Black Lives Matter badge to your profile starting in June 2020. According to OkCupid’s own statistics, liberal women and people who want to vote have a lot more luck on the site.

AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder is a social networking site similar to Pornhub. If the possible connections you’re discovering on Tinder aren’t as mature (or kinky) as you’d want, AFF will suffice.

Is it the greatest place to look for a long-term relationship? No. But bear with us. For anyone who has been out of the dating game for a while, practicing some sensual flirting in a setting where you aren’t seeking for anything serious might help you relax and get back into it. When talking with people on AFF, just use common sense and caution.

Bumble

Bumble requires women to message first in order to address one of the most popular complaints about dating apps: that women are bombarded with creepy messages. It may push some women out of their comfort zones, but unlike Tinder, you’ll know if someone swiped right on you before moving forward. It also relieves the pressure on guys who despise breaking the ice. (In same-sex matches, any side can initiate the relationship.)